Jesus Christ is not a Man like us, he is the ultimate spirit man. An if you want to be like him, you have first get unstuck from Jesus. Stuck on Jesus is what is taught in many churches today. The ultimate goal is for us to be like him. So what is missing : Obedience to the Lordship of Jesus Christ. Jesus if you love me do my commandments. Ask yourself if you even know his commandments. Jesus the man said he was the way because if you do what he commanded you could really be just like him.
You say you love Jesus. Here is a test. Go to 1John and read every word straight through. He tells you how you can know you love God. Do you do his Commandments? If not then you don't love him. He loves you, return his love.